Put yourself in someone elses shoes sometimes

I am the PCA for someone that is paralyzed from the waist down. She has been this way since the age of 28 when her mother passed out while driving. Her mother died and she became paralysed. She is now 44 and cannot do many things that most people take for granted. I feel blessed and appreciative because problems to me are not really problems when you put yourself in someone elses shoes.